Mother’s Day – one of the loneliest yet happiest day for me
because I’ve been blessed with two kids, one step-daughter (my son’s
half-sister), and two inherited grown children who have given me twelve
wonderful grandchildren, all miles and (may as well be) galaxies away from me,
hence the word “onism” from The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows. My excuse to briefly
wallow a bit.
Being confined to this bed, unable to travel at all due to circulatory issues, annoys me. And each of my kids have their
extended families and busy schedules which limits their opportunities to visit me.
Oh how I miss walking, driving or flying anywhere I wanted,
anytime I wanted. Sigh.
Anyhow I spent this Mother’s Day at home texting Mother’s Day
messages to friends and family and watching movies for hours. And relaxed. A
luxury for me. Turned out to be a good day after all. My pity-party ended
quickly.
My dear Michael – always thoughtful and spoiling me – bought
me this yummy giant chocolate chip cookie cake and a box of chocolates. Comfort
food. He always makes me feel special.
So, I shouldn’t complain. I’m blessed. Many motherless women
suffer on that day and others have lost children. I’m glad it’s just one day
and one day passes by swiftly.